Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse. Oh wait, that’s Christmas. Well, it’s Halloween morning and this momma is up early getting ready for my daughter’s first Halloween. Two of our favorite new momma friends are coming over today with their little ones. We are dressing up our kiddos, taking pictures and handing out sweet treats to the neighborhood kids. I am excited about a fun evening and can’t wait to share all the fun here on The New Indian Mom.
More soon but for now HAPPY HALLOWEEN!
As a new mom, I am simply over the moon to share the holidays with my newborn. So many firsts are in store for this little one and I plan to make sure that we enjoy them all. This includes both Indian and American celebrations, of which there are many between now and January. First, up Halloween followed closely by Diwali, the Indian festival of lights.
For Halloween, I am more than ready! I have the candy, my house is decorated, and the baby’s outfit is ready. I say outfit and not costume because at two months of age a costume may be more than my little one could handle. After all, she can’t hold her head up yet. But she has an adorable outfit ready to go and I have already conceptualized how to snap awesome pictures of the big day. Next year, she will be in a costume (thinking lady bug) but for this year comfort reigns.
For Diwali, I am less ready. Diwali is celebrated by Hindu and Sikhs around the world. Hindus pray to the Goddess Laxmi, the Goddess of prosperity. Sikhs celebrate Diwali to honor the day the sixth Guru Hargobind, was freed from prison. As a mixed Hindu and Sikh household, I would like our daughter to learn about what Diwali means to both religions. She is too small for this discussion this year but we will have some fun with the typical festival traditions, like lighting candles, putting lights on the house, buying gifts and generally praying for a prosperous year.
How did you celebrate your kids firsts Halloween and/or Diwali? I would love to hear about it soooooooooo start talking.
Oh, speaking of Diwali, I am participating in the Verizon Twitter Diwali party on October 30th at 6PM. Join the conversation to share your Diwali traditions. This new mom needs more ideas to make my daughter’s first Diwali a success! Here is the link –> http://www.theonlinemom.com/secondary.asp?id=2469&t=a-special-online-mom-twitter-event
Eight weeks. 168 hours. 10,800 minutes or about 604,800 seconds. That’s how long I have been a Mom. But if you ask me, I have been a mom for much longer than that.
It’s not the nine months that my little jaan, as I like to call her, was incubating in my belly, or the last two months that she has been in my arms. It is more than that. From the moment, I first held her I felt I had always known her. When her big, deep brown eyes first gazed at mine, it was not a gaze I was seeing for the first time. It was a knowing gaze, a familiar gaze, a gaze that connects us not just now but connected us before.
I believe that every person in our current life was with us before in other lifetimes. The souls we love now where the same souls we loved in the past and are the ones that will be there for us in the future. My daughter is new to me in this life but she has been with me before and she will be with me again.
Now, that doesn’t mean that I know what my baby wants when she cries or I have answers when she is wide awake at all hours of the night. I don’t. But it does mean that I know she was meant to be mine and I was meant to be hers.
What twists and turns our life will take, no one knows. All I know is that we will handle them together, as a family, just as we are meant to do.